Okay, it’s time for some real talk. We’ve covered the exciting stuff – the training, the performances, the dream of making it big. But what about the not-so-glamorous side of becoming a vocalist? In the spirit of making this the best guide out there, we need to discuss the challenges you’re likely to face. Don’t worry – we’ll end on a positive note (literally and figuratively) – but it’s important to go in with eyes open. So let’s lay it out:
- There’s No Such Thing as Overnight Success: Despite what viral TikTok stories might make it seem, most successful singers didn’t just wake up famous. What looks like a “big break” is usually the result of many smaller breaks and years of groundwork. You might spend years performing to small crowds, slowly building fans, and improving, before you hit a tipping point. Patience is essential.
- Income Can Be Unstable: Especially early on, money might be sporadic. One month you could snag a well-paid wedding gig or a handful of studio session jobs, and the next month… crickets. Many emerging vocalists keep a day job or side hustle to pay the bills (and there’s no shame in that!). The Bureau of Labor Statistics notes that many musicians work part-time and have irregular schedules. You might be singing on weekends and teaching or waiting tables on weekdays. Eventually, if you stick with it, you can piece together a livable income from various music activities (gigs, streaming revenue, merch, teaching voice lessons, etc.), but it takes time.
- Rejection and Criticism Are Inevitable: Every artist gets rejected. Maybe you won’t get the part in a musical audition, or a label you were excited about passes on your demo, or that local band you wanted to join chooses someone else. It hurts, no doubt. You’ll also get criticism – some constructive, some not. In the age of the internet, random strangers might comment on your YouTube video with not-so-nice words. Thick skin isn’t something you start with; it’s something you develop. Try to treat each rejection as redirection – another step in your journey. And when you get useful feedback, use it to improve. The rest? Let it roll off your back (easier said than done, but crucial for longevity).
- It’s Physically and Mentally Demanding: Singing night after night, traveling, late hours, and constantly emoting can take a toll. Vocal fatigue is real – we talked about rest and vocal care because you’ll need to be vigilant to avoid injuries like vocal nodules. Mental fatigue is also real. You might get burned out on a song you’ve sung 200 times on tour, or feel lonely on the road away from family, or anxious about your next step. It’s important to find balance and take care of your mental health. Many musicians find exercise, meditation, or hobbies help keep them sane outside of music.
- Talent Isn’t Enough (Work Ethic Is Key): This might be the hardest truth: a great voice is wonderful, but without hard work, it won’t automatically lead to success. You have to market yourself, be professional, be on time, network, practice, and continually hustle. As soprano Grace Davidson put it from her experience, it’s a “good career but it’s hard work and you have to be prepared to work hard and travel around the world doing auditions, performances, and recordings.” In other words, you’ll need to pour in a lot of effort behind the scenes.
Sounds like a lot, right? It is. Becoming a professional vocalist is one of the most challenging paths out there. Here’s a little anecdote: a wise vocal professor once told his students, “If there is anything else that you could do as a career and be happy, go do that. If not – welcome to the life of a performer!” That was his tongue-in-cheek way of saying this path is for those who can’t imagine doing anything else.
“Singing for fun and singing for a living are two very different paths. Yes, singing is fun and it should be, but it’s going to take some blood, sweat, tears, and years to make it a career.” — Lainey Wilson (Grammy-winning singer-songwriter)
“…If you’re turning down hanging out with friends to sit in your bedroom and write songs or practice, then you’re probably on to something. If you’re not willing to give up some of that stuff, then you probably don’t want it as much as you think you do.” — Violet Skies (singer-songwriter)
Lainey’s and Violet’s quotes above capture it perfectly: you’ll sacrifice and work hard, but that dedication is part of the journey. Now, let’s end this section on that promised hopeful note. Yes, the road is tough. But if singing is truly your passion, these challenges become just hurdles you’ll learn to leap over. Every rejection can motivate you to practice more. Every tough gig builds your experience. Every side job you take to fund your dream makes you appreciate your singing opportunities even more.
The upside is enormous: you get to wake up (or more likely, roll out of bed at 11am after a late show) and do something you absolutely love. You’ll have moments on stage where the crowd is with you, singing along or silently hanging on every note – and it feels like pure magic. You’ll touch people’s hearts with your voice, which is a reward few jobs can offer. And over time, you’ll see yourself transform from that beginner struggling with a tricky song to a seasoned vocalist who commands respect. That journey in itself is priceless.
So, when the going gets tough, remind yourself why you started. Play back an old performance and see how far you’ve come. Picture that end goal – whether it’s a sold-out concert, a critically acclaimed album, or just making a decent living doing what you love. Every bit of struggle is a step closer to that reality. Keep the faith, keep honing your craft, and keep singing. As long as you do, you’re already succeeding in the most important way.